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Social Security Survivor Benefits for Children After a Parent Dies

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When a parent dies, Social Security may pay their children a monthly benefit based on the parent's work record. Applying late can cost back payments. Here's who counts as a child, how much the benefit usually is, how long it lasts, how to apply, and what the parent or guardian has to report afterward.

AT A GLANCE

  • Who can get it: Unmarried children of a parent who worked and paid Social Security taxes, if they're 17 or younger, 18 or 19 and in school (K–12) full time, or any age with a disability that began before age 22.

  • How much: Children generally get 75% of the parent's benefit, subject to a family maximum.

  • Extra one-time payment: Some minor children can get a $255 lump-sum death payment if there's no eligible spouse.

  • How to apply: By phone appointment or in person. Call 1-800-772-1213 (TTY 1-800-325-0778), Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 7 p.m.

  • Don't wait: Back payments for months before you apply are limited, so call soon after the death.



What survivor benefits for children are

Social Security survivor benefits are monthly payments to family members of someone who worked and paid Social Security taxes before they died. The Social Security Administration (SSA) says a spouse, ex-spouse, child or dependent parent may be eligible. This guide is about the children.

SSA says the monthly payment is based on the work history of the parent who died. If the child qualifies, payments can continue each month until one of the end events in the federal rules, such as turning 18 or finishing high school.

Children of someone who died may be eligible if they're unmarried and are: Age 17 and younger, or Ages 18–19 and in school (K–12) full time, or Any age if they developed a disability at age 21 or younger. (Social Security Administration)

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Who counts as an eligible child

The federal rule, 20 CFR 404.350, lists the basic conditions. The child must:

  • Be the insured person's child under SSA's relationship rules

  • Be dependent on the insured person, as SSA defines it

  • Apply (a parent or guardian applies for a minor)

  • Be unmarried

  • Be under 18, or be 18 or older with a disability that began before 22, or be 18 or older and qualify as a full-time student

It's not only biological children

Under 20 CFR 404.354, a child can be related to the worker as a natural child, legally adopted child, stepchild, grandchild, stepgrandchild or equitably adopted child. SSA's survivor page also says that in certain situations it can pay married children, stepchildren, adopted children, grandchildren and stepgrandchildren. Each of these has its own proof rules, so ask SSA what records it needs for your family.

Child's situation

Can they qualify?

Under 18 and unmarried

Yes

18 or 19, full-time in grade 12 or below

Yes, until the school rules below end it

Any age, disability began before 22

Yes, if unmarried and the disability continues

In college at 18

No, the student rule covers only elementary and secondary school

Stepchild, grandchild or adopted child

Possibly, depending on relationship and dependency proof

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How much a child gets

SSA says children generally get 75% of the parent's benefit. The federal rule, 20 CFR 404.353, puts it the same way: three-fourths of the parent's primary insurance amount when the parent has died.

The family maximum

There's a cap on what one family can receive on a worker's record. SSA calls it the family maximum. If several family members get benefits on the same record, SSA may lower everyone's payments to stay under the limit. SSA says ex-spouses don't count toward the family maximum.

So if a widow and three children all qualify, each child's check may be smaller than 75%.

If a child qualifies on more than one record

A child can be eligible on more than one person's record, for example on a parent who died and on a living parent who gets retirement or disability benefits. Under 20 CFR 404.353, the child will usually get only the benefit from the record with the highest primary insurance amount, not both added together.

Getting an estimate

SSA's survivor amount page says to call 1-800-772-1213 for a benefit estimate. Tell the representative the Social Security number of the parent who died. If you don't have it, they'll ask for other details, such as the parent's date of birth and their parents' names.

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The $255 lump-sum death payment

Social Security also has a one-time $255 death payment. Under 20 CFR 404.390 and 404.392, it goes in this order:

Who

When they get it

Widow or widower living in the same household

First in line

Widow or widower, or a parent getting mother's or father's benefits on the record

If no spouse was living in the household

Children eligible for child's benefits on the record

Split equally, only if no one above qualifies

If you have to apply for it, the rule says the application must be filed within 2 years of the death.

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Benefits for the parent raising the children

The surviving parent may qualify too, even if they're young. SSA says a spouse might be eligible regardless of age and length of marriage if they're caring for a child of the person who died.

The rule for these "mother's or father's benefits," 20 CFR 404.339, requires that the surviving spouse be unmarried and have in their care the worker's child who gets child's benefits and is under 16 or disabled. A divorced parent of the worker's child may also qualify under 20 CFR 404.340 if the same care requirement is met.

Ask about this when you call to apply for the children. SSA's amount page says that if you're eligible for survivor benefits and another benefit, you choose the payment that's best for you. They won't be added together.

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How to apply for a child

SSA's application page for a child under 18 offers a phone appointment. You answer a few questions online, and SSA helps you set up an appointment to apply by phone. You can also call 1-800-772-1213 and ask for an appointment by phone or in person.

Apply soon after the death

Under 20 CFR 404.352, a child's benefits on a deceased parent's record start with the first month covered by the application in which the child meets all the requirements. If you apply late, back payments are limited. The rule for child's benefits on the record of someone who wasn't getting disability benefits, 20 CFR 404.621(a)(2), allows up to 6 months before the month you apply. Months before that may be lost.

SSA's survivor landing page also says the funeral home usually reports the death to Social Security. That report doesn't apply for the children. You still have to file.

When the first payment arrives

SSA says the child gets the first payment a month after the benefits start. For example, if benefits start in January, the first payment arrives in February.

Step

What to do

1

Find the parent's Social Security number, or their date of birth and parents' names

2

Call 1-800-772-1213 or start the online questions to book an appointment

3

Ask about the children, the surviving parent and the $255 payment in the same call

4

Ask what proof of relationship and dependency SSA needs

5

Check the application status after you file

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Who manages the child's money

A minor's payments usually go to a representative payee, an adult SSA appoints to manage the money for the child. SSA says it generally looks for family or friends first, and for a qualified organization if no one is able to serve.

SSA says some payees no longer have to file the yearly Representative Payee Report, including:

  • Natural or adoptive parents of a minor child who mainly live in the same household as the child

  • Legal guardians of a minor child who mainly live in the same household as the child

Even if you don't have to file the report, SSA says every payee must keep records of how the payments are spent or saved and show them if SSA asks. Federal law also requires electronic payment, through direct deposit or a Direct Express card.

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When the payments stop

Under 20 CFR 404.352, a child's benefits end at the earliest of several events, including:

  • The month before the child turns 18, if they aren't disabled or a full-time student

  • The month before the child marries, with limited exceptions for disabled adult children

  • For a student, the last month in school or the month before age 19, whichever comes first. If the child turns 19 mid-term, the rule can extend benefits to the end of that quarter or semester, or, if the school doesn't use terms, until the course ends or the first day of the third month after the month they turn 19, whichever is earlier.

  • For stepchildren, the month the divorce between the child's parent and the stepparent becomes final

Keeping benefits at 18 while still in high school

SSA says that if a child turns 18 and is still in grade 12 or below, use Form SSA-1372, the Advance Notice of Termination of Child's Benefits, to ask to keep the payments.

Under 20 CFR 404.367, the student must:

  • Attend a school that gives elementary or secondary education under state law. Home school under a state home-school law and some independent-study programs also count.

  • Be in grade 12 or below

  • Carry a full-time subject load

  • Generally be scheduled for at least 20 hours a week. There are exceptions if the school doesn't offer that many hours or a medical condition prevents it.

  • Not be paid by an employer to attend

A break of 4 consecutive months or less doesn't end student status if the student plans to return full time and wasn't expelled or suspended (20 CFR 404.368).

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What to report after benefits start

SSA's reporting page tells families to call promptly about changes such as marriage, income and custody. You can also report changes by signing in and submitting Form SSA-795, the Statement of Claimant or Other Person, with a short explanation and the date of the change. You can update direct deposit, contact information and citizenship or immigration status online.

Custody changes are on SSA's list of things to report, so call if the child moves in with someone else.

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Your checklist

  • ☐ Find the parent's Social Security number

  • ☐ Call 1-800-772-1213 to book an appointment for each child

  • ☐ Ask whether the surviving parent qualifies for mother's or father's benefits

  • ☐ Ask about the $255 lump-sum death payment

  • ☐ Set up direct deposit for the child's payments

  • ☐ Keep records of how the child's money is spent or saved

  • ☐ Mark the child's 18th birthday and file SSA-1372 if they're still in high school

WHAT TO DO THIS WEEK

  • Call Social Security and ask for a survivor benefits appointment for each child, even if the funeral home already reported the death.

  • Ask for a benefit estimate and what the family maximum means for your household.

  • Write down the date you first called and the name of the person you spoke to.



More help

Related guides

Official sources

Last checked: October 30, 2026. Eligibility, the 75% figure, the family maximum, the $255 payment, phone hours, the first-payment timing, reporting and payee rules come from SSA.gov. Relationship, amount, start and end dates, student rules, mother's and father's benefits, lump-sum order and back-payment limits come from 20 CFR 404.339 to 404.392 and 404.621.

This is general information. SSA decides eligibility and amounts case by case based on the parent's work record and your family's situation.

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